Jan. 30, 2026

Not Being Able to Say Goodbye | Dead Dads

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Not Being Able to Say Goodbye | Dead Dads

Kevin Barrett joins the podcast to share the story of his father, Rowe, a man who balanced a gregarious public persona with a deep, quiet devotion to his family. From his recurring fascination with a documentary about migrating geese to the steady tradition of 6:00 AM Saturday pancakes with his grandson, we look at the small moments that define a legacy. We explore the internal process of navigating a sudden loss and the profound perspective shift that occurs when you realize that "being strong" is far less important than being present for the people who remain.

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Chapters:

00:00 Breaking the Stigma: It's Okay Not to Be Strong

00:21 Introducing the Hosts and Their Unique Approach

01:04 Welcoming Kevin Barrett: A Personal Connection

01:56 Kevin's Journey: Finding Therapy Through Friends

04:03 Coping Mechanisms: Music and TV Shows

05:42 Reflecting on the Universe and Grief

07:38 Remembering Roe Barrett: A Father's Legacy

14:11 The Emotional Side of Roe Barrett

18:34 Roe Barrett as a Grandfather

19:17 Grandfather's Legacy and Memories

20:06 A Funny Nighttime Incident

20:35 The Passing of RO

22:06 Discovering the Loss

24:42 Dealing with the Aftermath

25:50 Clearing Out and Moving On

27:19 The Legal Side of Loss

29:07 Grief and Therapy

35:51 Support from Friends

40:20 Advice for the Grieving

43:00 Conclusion and Podcast Wrap-Up